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But when by other means you have brought her
to a compliant mood, so that you can approach her with some degree of
freedom, be as wise and guarded as though you were celebrating the
mysteries;[44] gently approach and kiss her: a kiss given by a lover
to a willing           is a silent way of asking for her favours; and
the same given to the fair one who is coy, is a supplication to relent.